Finding a new normal after divorce can take some time, especially if you’re feeling very wounded over the loss of the marriage. It is so important though, even more than dating or anything postdivorce, to allow yourself to heal and feel good again. You’ll be no good to anyone, much less yourself, if you don’t allow yourself to discover who you are in this new single, postmarried life. Try these 15 ways to discover who you want to be today and move forward. It DOES get better!