Monthly Archives: August 23, 2017

7 Small Silver Linings of Going Through a Divorce

When you’re going through a divorce, it can be hard at times to see all the positives that are coming from breaking off a dead and done marriage. You might find yourself sulking in your own self-pity too much. You might find yourself looking at the glass as not only half-empty, but dead damn empty….read more

Are This Year's "Sexy" Costumes For Men Hot or Horrifying?

When it comes to store-bought Halloween costumes for men, they tend to be more sexually inappropriate than I-want-to-jump-your-bones sexy, which really is a damn shame. Because if women are expected to dress in what’s essentially pasties and a toddler-size miniskirt on Halloween, shouldn’t the guys have to follow suit? Oh, and pro tip to the…read more

25 Reminders to Tell Yourself When You're Heartbroken

Right after the end of a relationship, it’s difficult to imagine ever feeling any better. It’s as if your world has stopped and nothing has the power to bring you comfort. But like all things, time will soften the pain until one day you’ll wonder why you wasted so much energy along the way. To…read more

Why My Wife Thinks My Foot Fetish Is an Absolute Godsend

When I first broached my desire to bow down and kiss my wife’s feet, she felt it was a “weird” request. Now, she finds my fetish not only enjoyable but a “godsend.” Why? Because we have mismatched libidos and foot play gives her a way to please me without feeling pressured to have sex. I…read more

What Is Sexual Fluidity?

You may have heard of gender fluidity in recent years, as it is becoming a more mainstream term, thanks in part to celebrities like Amber Rose and Jaden Smith. The idea behind gender fluidity is basically that gender is nonbinary – there’s more than just “male” and “female.” The same can be said about sexual…read more

Polyamory Is About Way More Than Just Having Sex With Multiple People

Polyamory, relationship anarchy, consensual nonmonogamy – do any of these terms ring a bell? Polyamory has been making a comeback in the media, but few people truly understand this romantic inclination. If they are aware of it, their knowledge probably comes from TLC’s Sister Wives (or maybe even The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt), a seemingly made-for-TV…read more

This Courthouse Elopement in Maui Proves a Destination Wedding Can Be Small

When you think destination wedding, you probably envision an extravagant gathering, but Dallas and Nancy’s Maui elopement is proof that you can keep things intimate. The San Diego couple traveled all the way to Maui to say “I do” at a local courthouse along with their two best friends and their significant others. The newlyweds…read more