Posts Categorized: Tips

18 Lesbian Romances You Can Stream on Netflix

More than ever before, we’re seeing queer women represented in film and television. Over the last year, we’ve bore witness to Billie Jean King’s career in Battle of the Sexes and wept over Lena Waithe’s emotional Emmys speech for the beautiful Master of None episode, “Thanksgiving.” You don’t need to look very far to see…read more

What I Learned From My Affair With a Married Man

When you are in a relationship, cheating is one of the worst things that can happen. First the rage sets in, then self-doubt, more rage, then the hurt. You find yourself questioning every little thing, and even eventually, you may begin to blame yourself. The reasons people cheat tend to be pretty broad, but take…read more

Dear Cheater, You Never Got the Best of Me

To the Ex Who Cheated, This is a letter I never thought I’d be able to write. When I first found out that you cheated on me, I was devastated, sad, and angry for a long time – and I didn’t even know what a time-consuming and painful journey I would have to face. Most…read more

Brutally Honest Reasons Why I Hate Valentine's Day

As a self-proclaimed queer feminist, Valentine’s Day is something I have come to loathe. It is both the commercialization of the holiday and the sentiment that has always been unsettling to me. A whole industry has been spawned out of this day, and companies make millions of dollars from floral arrangements, cards, and dinner reservations….read more

Why You Should Never Be Ashamed of Getting a Divorce

When I randomly look through articles I have written on divorce or read through comments on social media posts of these same articles, there’s always at least one or two “shamers” trolling the pieces. Usually these shamers quote biblical accounts or talk about how these people must be weak or awful, terrible parents (if divorced…read more

This Classic Detroit Wedding Displays the True Beauty of the City

Newlyweds Sarah and Andrew “are just really frickin’ cool people,” raved Erin of E Schmidt Photography. The photographer said she loved working with them on their big day in Detroit. “I felt like I’ve known them forever,” she said. “Not to mention, they are so in love. One part of their day that I particularly…read more

This Classic Detroit Wedding Displays the True Beauty of the City

Newlyweds Sarah and Andrew “are just really frickin’ cool people,” raved Erin of E Schmidt Photography. The photographer said she loved working with them on their big day in Detroit. “I felt like I’ve known them forever,” she said. “Not to mention, they are so in love. One part of their day that I particularly…read more

5 Benefits of Having Sex During Winter

Just like our moods change with the transition from one season to another, so do our sex drives. In fact, many experts say couples tend to have more sex in the wintertime than other months, both based on desire, availability, and well, boredom (cabin fever, anyone?). Psychotherapist Kelley Kitley says during the Winter, couples have…read more