7 Small Silver Linings of Going Through a Divorce

When you’re going through a divorce, it can be hard at times to see all the positives that are coming from breaking off a dead and done marriage. You might find yourself sulking in your own self-pity too much. You might find yourself looking at the glass as not only half-empty, but dead damn empty….read more

Are This Year's "Sexy" Costumes For Men Hot or Horrifying?

When it comes to store-bought Halloween costumes for men, they tend to be more sexually inappropriate than I-want-to-jump-your-bones sexy, which really is a damn shame. Because if women are expected to dress in what’s essentially pasties and a toddler-size miniskirt on Halloween, shouldn’t the guys have to follow suit? Oh, and pro tip to the…read more

25 Reminders to Tell Yourself When You're Heartbroken

Right after the end of a relationship, it’s difficult to imagine ever feeling any better. It’s as if your world has stopped and nothing has the power to bring you comfort. But like all things, time will soften the pain until one day you’ll wonder why you wasted so much energy along the way. To…read more

Damn, This Guy Ghosted His Ex and Karma's Getting Him Back Almost a Decade Later

What goes around can apparently come back around more than a decade later. A male reader wrote to career advice column Ask a Manager about his current unfortunate situation that’s kind of hard to sympathize with. Ever since he graduated college, he’d been moving around a lot until he got involved with his then-girlfriend, Sylvia….read more

These "Sexy" Halloween Costumes Will Burn Your Retinas More Than the Eclipse

How low can you go? When it comes to inappropriately sexy Halloween costumes, pretty damn low. Look, a sexy superhero is one thing, but when you take something simple and pure – like, say, a baby – you’ve gone too far. Check out these sexy Halloween costumes from Yandy and Spirit Halloween that never should…read more

Why My Wife Thinks My Foot Fetish Is an Absolute Godsend

When I first broached my desire to bow down and kiss my wife’s feet, she felt it was a “weird” request. Now, she finds my fetish not only enjoyable but a “godsend.” Why? Because we have mismatched libidos and foot play gives her a way to please me without feeling pressured to have sex. I…read more

What Is Sexual Fluidity?

You may have heard of gender fluidity in recent years, as it is becoming a more mainstream term, thanks in part to celebrities like Amber Rose and Jaden Smith. The idea behind gender fluidity is basically that gender is nonbinary – there’s more than just “male” and “female.” The same can be said about sexual…read more

A Woman's Heartbreaking Words to Her Husband About the "Choke Hold" Anxiety Has

“You know how she can’t understand when she asks, ‘What are you thinking?’ Why you would respond with ‘Nothing.’ It’s because she never thinks . . . nothing. Her thoughts replay like a freight train in her head full steam ahead, over and over. It’s exhausting for her. It’s why she’s tired.” When I read…read more

Polyamory Is About Way More Than Just Having Sex With Multiple People

Polyamory, relationship anarchy, consensual nonmonogamy – do any of these terms ring a bell? Polyamory has been making a comeback in the media, but few people truly understand this romantic inclination. If they are aware of it, their knowledge probably comes from TLC’s Sister Wives (or maybe even The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt), a seemingly made-for-TV…read more

This Courthouse Elopement in Maui Proves a Destination Wedding Can Be Small

When you think destination wedding, you probably envision an extravagant gathering, but Dallas and Nancy’s Maui elopement is proof that you can keep things intimate. The San Diego couple traveled all the way to Maui to say “I do” at a local courthouse along with their two best friends and their significant others. The newlyweds…read more

34 Love Songs to Send to Your SO

Sometimes lyrics can express your emotions better than you can convey them in words. And now that playlists are like the modern version of romantic mixtapes, sending your significant other a song link can say exactly what you’re feeling for them. Whether you want to tell them “I love you” or just that they’re on…read more

17 Pretty Disney Ears For Brides-to-Be

Hardcore Disney-lovers like to show their loyalty in every type of way, and that doesn’t exclude at their weddings. Disney bridal ears are perfect for occasions from a Disney bachelorette party to celebrating the happily ever after. And knowing true fans, they’ll make any time a good time for their ears, because when are they…read more

Why I'm Completely OK With Being a "Househusband"

When the CEO of my former company sat the 100 employees down for an impromptu meeting, everyone knew something was coming. Sure enough, our company was going through a “merger” (CEO speak for “We got bought out, but a merger sounds more equitable”), and 29 employees were to be laid off that day. Mine was…read more

The Story Behind This Touching Water Ballet Routine Will Move You to Tears

Briar Bates knew exactly how she wanted her friends to honor her death, and boy, did they deliver. The 42-year-old artist from Seattle, who was diagnosed with cancer in November of 2016, helped choreograph a moving water ballet routine she personally requested from her friends, and she even gave honest feedback to the dancers to…read more

What the Word Queer Means to Me

We’ve reclaimed it: the word “queer.” It’s inclusive, it’s broad, and it’s the word that feels best for me. Yes, the term was a slur. When I used the word queer in front of my grandma for the first time, I registered the shock in her voice, but I quickly explained that queer had been…read more

26 Sexy Spine Tattoos That Will Give You Chills

If you’re thinking about getting a sexy piece of body art, consider doing it down the spine for the fiercest results. No matter what you get inked along the vertebrae – whether it’s a quote or a stunning floral design – it will look amazing. Backless tops? Game over. We’ve looked for some of the…read more

4 Reasons Being the Oldest Kid in Your Family Gets Better With Age

Being the oldest kid in a family means that your experience growing up is going to be way different than your younger siblings’ – for better or for worse. For one thing, you’re gonna get in a hell of a lot more trouble for stuff compared to the brothers and sisters who come after you,…read more