7 Small Silver Linings of Going Through a Divorce

When you’re going through a divorce, it can be hard at times to see all the positives that are coming from breaking off a dead and done marriage. You might find yourself sulking in your own self-pity too much. You might find yourself looking at the glass as not only half-empty, but dead damn empty….read more

Are This Year's "Sexy" Costumes For Men Hot or Horrifying?

When it comes to store-bought Halloween costumes for men, they tend to be more sexually inappropriate than I-want-to-jump-your-bones sexy, which really is a damn shame. Because if women are expected to dress in what’s essentially pasties and a toddler-size miniskirt on Halloween, shouldn’t the guys have to follow suit? Oh, and pro tip to the…read more

25 Reminders to Tell Yourself When You're Heartbroken

Right after the end of a relationship, it’s difficult to imagine ever feeling any better. It’s as if your world has stopped and nothing has the power to bring you comfort. But like all things, time will soften the pain until one day you’ll wonder why you wasted so much energy along the way. To…read more

Damn, This Guy Ghosted His Ex and Karma's Getting Him Back Almost a Decade Later

What goes around can apparently come back around more than a decade later. A male reader wrote to career advice column Ask a Manager about his current unfortunate situation that’s kind of hard to sympathize with. Ever since he graduated college, he’d been moving around a lot until he got involved with his then-girlfriend, Sylvia….read more

These "Sexy" Halloween Costumes Will Burn Your Retinas More Than the Eclipse

How low can you go? When it comes to inappropriately sexy Halloween costumes, pretty damn low. Look, a sexy superhero is one thing, but when you take something simple and pure – like, say, a baby – you’ve gone too far. Check out these sexy Halloween costumes from Yandy and Spirit Halloween that never should…read more

Why My Wife Thinks My Foot Fetish Is an Absolute Godsend

When I first broached my desire to bow down and kiss my wife’s feet, she felt it was a “weird” request. Now, she finds my fetish not only enjoyable but a “godsend.” Why? Because we have mismatched libidos and foot play gives her a way to please me without feeling pressured to have sex. I…read more

What Is Sexual Fluidity?

You may have heard of gender fluidity in recent years, as it is becoming a more mainstream term, thanks in part to celebrities like Amber Rose and Jaden Smith. The idea behind gender fluidity is basically that gender is nonbinary – there’s more than just “male” and “female.” The same can be said about sexual…read more

A Woman's Heartbreaking Words to Her Husband About the "Choke Hold" Anxiety Has

“You know how she can’t understand when she asks, ‘What are you thinking?’ Why you would respond with ‘Nothing.’ It’s because she never thinks . . . nothing. Her thoughts replay like a freight train in her head full steam ahead, over and over. It’s exhausting for her. It’s why she’s tired.” When I read…read more

Polyamory Is About Way More Than Just Having Sex With Multiple People

Polyamory, relationship anarchy, consensual nonmonogamy – do any of these terms ring a bell? Polyamory has been making a comeback in the media, but few people truly understand this romantic inclination. If they are aware of it, their knowledge probably comes from TLC’s Sister Wives (or maybe even The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt), a seemingly made-for-TV…read more

This Courthouse Elopement in Maui Proves a Destination Wedding Can Be Small

When you think destination wedding, you probably envision an extravagant gathering, but Dallas and Nancy’s Maui elopement is proof that you can keep things intimate. The San Diego couple traveled all the way to Maui to say “I do” at a local courthouse along with their two best friends and their significant others. The newlyweds…read more

Can Rachel Resist Falling Under Malcolm's Seductive Spell?

Katy Evans returns with this sexy novella, Ms. Manwhore, the final installment of the unforgettable love story that began in Manwhore. Will Chicago’s wealthiest and most notorious player finally settle down, or will one woman never be enough? For more on this sultry novel, visit XOXO After Dark! PG-13 Excerpt My eyes widen when he…read more

Millenials, Beware of the Sunday Scaries

Twins Karen and Kristy Ambrose, also known as The Ambrose Girls, share their thoughts on the Sunday habits and perceptions of millennials. Sundays. We all seem to dread them for really good reason. The large majority of us 20-somethings begin each Sunday in a desperate search for water, our iPhones, and perhaps any remaining pieces…read more

10 Contradictions Men Expect From Women

The dating game can be a struggle in general, but even more so when reality doesn’t meet the same expectations your guy has of you. It’s no news that men and women are wired differently – especially in terms of relationships. Have you ever heard your male friends describe what they look for in a…read more

6 Reasons to Date a Feminist

Forty-seven percent of women ages 18 to 35 identify as feminists, and given that 85 percent of Americans believe in equality for women – which is really the definition of feminism, even more are feminists without even realizing it. If you’re currently on the dating market, then, it’s very possible you’ll have the chance to…read more

30 Concrete Ways to Reconnect With Your Significant Other

So it happened: the bubbly excitement of the honeymoon phase wore off, your work life inadvertently became more important than your personal one, and suddenly, you feel like you haven’t really spoken to your partner in weeks. While it is normal for relationships to fluctuate through phases of intense passion and consistent comfort, it is…read more

These Hocus Pocus Music Videos Will Make You Feel SO Nostalgic

It’s an indisputable fact that Hocus Pocus is the best Halloween movie ever, and lucky for us, there are other people out there who feel the same way. Traci Hines – real-life hipster Ariel and resident Elsa impersonator – is at it again, this time with a Halloween twist on a Disney classic. In her…read more

This Man Proposed to His Girlfriend During the Craziest Moment

(function(d, s, id) { var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0]; if (d.getElementById(id)) return; js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id; js.src = “//connect.facebook.net/en_US/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.3″; fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);}(document, ‘script’, ‘facebook-jssdk’)); The sweetest proposal EVER!!! Posted by Debra Norris Sadowski on Friday, October 16, 2015 You never know when your partner’s going to pop the question – in the middle of…read more